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How to Avoid Criticism in Relationships
Mormon Life says: What better way to say "Happy Valentine's Day" than by taking steps to improve your relationship? Criticism is a damaging communication pattern, and every relationship can benefit from removing it.
We live in a society where criticism has become the norm and respect a thing of the past. This is, in my professional opinion, one of the primary reasons families across the United States are...
Defensiveness: A Marriage Communication Problem
Mormon Life says: Defensiveness tends to be one of the key communications patterns leading to arguments. And even though it is a natural response, it can and should be controlled.
Do you ever get defensive when talking to your spouse? Does your spouse get defensive with you? Defensiveness is one of the most common negative communication patterns I see when I counsel couples....
Dating Expert: Talking So Men Listen
Mormon Life says: As a licensed marriage and family therapist and dating coach, I often see couples who are disconnected in some way because they don't know how to communicate in a way that makes the other partner feel respected or secure. Read these tips for both men and women on how to effectively communicate with the other sex.
In my work as a licensed marriage and family therapist and dating coach, I see couples become cold, withdrawn, or disconnected simply because they do not know how to communicate in a way that makes...
{Single Saints} Communication: Don't Make It a Jigsaw Puzzle
Mormon Life says: Too often in relationships, one party severs the communication lines without warning, leaving the other person confused and wondering what to do next. I'm calling for an end to the insanity.
I’m in a relationship with a girl right now. Of course, I use the word “relationship” in its most basic sense: there is, right now, only slightly more interaction between this girl and me than there...
Ins and Outs of Body Language
Mormon Life says: Body language is a fact of life — you use it every day, even if you aren’t aware of what your language is telling others.
We'll introduce you to some of the basics of body language, give you tips on how to act in social and home settings, and dispel some of the body language myths that might have you reading others the...
Are You Listening?
Mormon Life says: Where were you when those famously tragic words brought your attention crashing back? Maybe you were on a date, chatting on the phone, sitting in an important business meeting, or perhaps staring straight into the eyes of the one you love when you were asked, “Weren’t you listening?” Well, weren’t you?
Listening is a vital part of all relationships; it is the bridge of true understanding between people. In reverse, when it is absent, misunderstanding prevails and people don't relate to one...
10 Phrases that Prevent Arguments
Mormon Life says: How many times have you tried to offer someone advice, asked for help, or simply began a friendly conversation, only to have the interaction turn into an argument neither of you anticipated? Here are ten phrases to help keep everyone comfortable.
Many contentions between family, friends, and coworkers occur because of a little-understood aspect of social IQ: using language that prevents conflicts. By watching what you say and approaching a...
Young Women Lesson 8: Improving Communication Skills
Mormon Life says: Our words, like our deeds, should be filled with faith and hope and charity.
The Prophet Joseph Smith deepened our understanding of the power of speech when he taught, "It is by words . . . [that] every being works when he works by faith. God said, 'Let there be light: and...
"Draw Upon Your Experience"
Mormon Life says: It is not easy to describe an object you cannot see. Sometimes it is even difficult to describe what we do see. Encourage the group to practice patience with other and with themselves as they learn to communicate well.
Song: # 124 "Be Still, My Soul" Items Needed: A brown paper sack An object with an interesting shape Paper and pencil for each family member Previous Preparation: Place the...
Does Your Teen Really Listen? Do You?
Mormon Life says: It’s possible that while you were giving one-sided lectures, your teen was looking for two-sided conversations. If your teen won't listen, chances are you might be spending too much time slinging words and not enough time receiving them.
Imagine trying to communicate with someone who doesn’t understand English. Would you repeatedly shout the information, assuming the person will eventually figure out what you’re trying to say? Of...
