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      <title>&quot;SAD&quot; in Winter?</title>
      <link>http://www.mormonlife.com/story/67326-sad-in-winter</link>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 00:05:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      by Dr. Thomas J. Boud, MD
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source: MormonLife.com
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	&lt;i class=&quot;ml_blurb&quot;&gt;Mormon Life says: Do you feel down (even depressed) in the winter? More down than others seem to feel? You may have Seasonal Affective Disorder - a real condition brought on by lack of sunlight.&lt;/i&gt;


&lt;div&gt;A recent Gallup Poll showed Hawaii is America’s happiest state. It is also the most southern state and has the most consistent sunshine based on its latitude. This isn’t a coincidence.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sunshine—or lack thereof—can actually affect your mood. When you can constantly enjoy the sunshine, you are more likely to be happy, but the converse is also true, which, unfortunately, means that an&amp;nbsp;increased number of people feel a progressive melancholy as winter begins to seem endless and the sun becomes a rarity due to shorter days and stormier weather. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It has been calculated that January is the most depressing month of the year. Even more specifically, &lt;i&gt;this&lt;/i&gt; week, the third week of January, is the most depressing week of the year. The calculation is based on weather, debt, time since Christmas, time since failing our New Year’s resolutions, as well as low motivation, and that puts the most depressing day of the year at about the third Monday in January. Sounds like a great time of year for a warm southern cruise.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For many people, symptoms of seasonal affective disorder, or SAD, begin to appear as the dusky season of fall encroaches upon us and then culminate during the dark winter months. These same people may feel much better as a new spring emerges and then be totally normal during the bright months of &amp;nbsp;summer, only to repeat the cycle the next year.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Symptoms of SAD may include depression, hopelessness, anxiety, loss of energy, social withdrawal, fatigue and oversleeping, loss of interest in activities, carbohydrate and sugar cravings, weight gain, and difficulty concentrating. SAD tends to be more common in women, but men may also have symptoms and often show more irritability. Regardless of gender, the situation may also be complicated by a personal or family history of depression. The condition is also frequently exacerbated by stress. There is no question that the farther you live from the equator, the more risk you have of developing SAD.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The causes are many and complex, but it appears that a reduced level of sunlight may disrupt your body’s circadian rhythm and negatively affect several important brain chemicals. Treatment includes special light therapy boxes that you can sit in front of for a period of time each morning to help restore your body’s natural circadian rhythm.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Taking a walk in the sunshine during the day also helps, as do other forms of physical fitness. I encourage my own patients to get above the inversion smog and onto the ski slopes. The winter sun&amp;nbsp;reflecting off the white snow is pretty potent therapy—just protect your eyes with appropriate sunglasses.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Staying mentally active and even volunteering for a good cause has been proven to help. Medications and professional counseling are also commonly used to help control symptoms of SAD. Finally,&amp;nbsp;if the winter blues are really getting you down, do what my friend Bob did and fill a prescription to “take&amp;nbsp;a vacation from your problems.”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;If your symptoms are really getting the best of you, see your doctor. Life is so precious and we have been given so much. Let’s focus on the multitude of blessings we have been given and allow the sunshine in to permeate the winter times of our lives.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Now, let’s get healthy!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;-Dr. Boud&lt;/div&gt;

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      <title>Beating the Winter Blues + Poll</title>
      <link>http://www.mormonlife.com/story/62732-beating-the-winter-blues-poll</link>
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      <pubDate>Sat, 20 Nov 2010 00:04:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      by Erin Nelson
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source: MormonLife.com
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	&lt;i class=&quot;ml_blurb&quot;&gt;Mormon Life says: The winter blues can make the holiday season seem like the opposite of the most wonderful time of year. From an absent
sun to barren trees, from biting cold to a never-ending list of obligations, it’s enough to make anyone want to disappear
under the covers. But there are a few ways to help beat this seasonal foe and enjoy the warmth winter does have to offer.&lt;/i&gt;


The alarm clock goes off and a cheerful voice warns you to bundle up; 20 degrees will be the high. The sun still has to rise, and you know frost covers your car. You moan, roll over, and pull the covers over your head. Convincing yourself to get up and out of bed means hitting the snooze button at least five times. You won’t have time for a shower, but you don’t care. Cooking takes too much energy, so you pick up a warm chocolate doughnut and a soda on the way out. Today feels worse than yesterday. For you, winter is the longest season of the year.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;An estimated 10 to 20 percent of Americans suffer from what is called Seasonal Affective Disorder, SAD, or winter blues. Dr. Jack L. Jensen, Ed.D., director of Psychological Services at Utah Valley University, compares what a person might feel to a bear going into hibernation. “A person will feel sluggish, not as perky, and experience low energy,” he says. These feelings tend to get stronger around Halloween and typically last until spring. SAD is a mild depression that takes on the personality of the person experiencing it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Research shows that women may suffer from SAD more often than men, and genes may play into how a person feels. Jensen says that people who have ancestors from northern countries may find themselves more prone to SAD, but that may vary from person to person.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The list of ways to cope with SAD is long and varied. It includes treating yourself to something, embracing the season, lighting candles, getting some sleep, walking outside when the sun is out, and volunteering. But for many, simply getting out of bed to do those activities is a daily battle. The idea of preparing a holiday dinner becomes overwhelming and all one wants to do is sleep. So what really works?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Decrease Melatonin&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jensen explains the reason someone may experience these feelings is due to the hormone melatonin. “Melatonin is the sleep hormone,” he says. “When the sun rises, melatonin decreases, allowing us to wake up. When the sun comes up later (such as in winter), a person with SAD experiences higher levels of melatonin. They have a harder time getting out of bed.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The first thing to do to beat the winter blues is counteract the lack of sun in the morning. Light therapy helps decrease melatonin when used in the morning and on a regular basis. Special blue ray lamps act as the sun to our bodies and may give an extra boost in the morning. Leaving the lamp on for 45 minutes can be the difference to brighter days for some people. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Lamp sizes vary (try websites like fullspectrumsolutions.com or lighttherapyproducts.com). Jensen suggests that a person with SAD may find benefits from waking up with the lamps when the sun doesn’t wake up with them. “Our bodies absorb the blue light through the eyes,” Jensen says.
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&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Exercise&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We hear it again and again: exercise will help us feel better. Jensen agrees. Keeping the body active will produce endorphins—pain-relieving hormones often known as “runner’s high” hormones—that also help us feel better. “Getting the heart rate pumping above normal for that person will lift their mood,” recommends Jensen.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When the sun is out, bundle up and take a short 20 to 30 minute walk outside. The fresh air mixed with sunlight will lift your spirit. However, for those living in a valley mid-winter where inversions may contribute to SAD, walking through the neighborhood is not recommended. The best way to enjoy a sunny inversion day, according to Dr. Jensen, is to get up high enough where the inversion is not present. A trip to the canyon to ski or hike will clear the mind.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Talk (and Laugh) with Someone&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Having a buddy isn’t just for kids—it’s for anybody. “Support systems give people a chance to talk through things and help them realize that they are not alone,” says Dr. Jennifer Cannon, with the Child Evaluation &amp;amp; Treatment Center in American Fork, Utah.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Feeling alone, especially during the holidays, can make anyone want to hibernate and stay inside longer, so maintaining relationships becomes vital to coping with this mild depression. Cannon likes to compare our feelings and support systems to a balloon. “Emotions go into the balloon, and as it gets bigger and bigger, if you don’t have a way to let them out, that balloon will explode,” she says. Talking to someone in a support system, to family, or to friends will help those feelings decrease. Even if the conversation is about minor things, talking helps keep our emotions in check.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Live It Up&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“Get out of the house at least once a week,” Cannon says. “Do something fun for you.” It is easy to stay inside all day, every day when it’s dark and the weather is moody. The importance of getting out with friends, family, or co-workers seems minimal, but it becomes something to look forward to.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If the activity is habitual and fun, a person with winter blues can focus on the activity instead of what they can’t do.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Healthy and Happy&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes, even what we eat contributes to our mood. Winter comes, the fresh peaches are gone, tomatoes are canned, and watermelons no longer fill the huge bins in the grocery store. Choices become minimal and more expensive for fresh fruits and vegetables, but finding ways to eat healthily will contribute to better moods. Choose citrus, which naturally boosts energy and is in season during the winter. Check out the more exotic pomegranates, and get winter squash, broccoli, snow peas, and sweet potatoes, all of which grow in winter. And try to limit your intake of heavy holiday sweets—weight gain and feeling heavy can contribute to low feelings.
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&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Rest Enough&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sleeping too long may produce sluggishness and lack of energy for a person with SAD. Not sleeping enough can cause irritability, cognitive restrictions, and exhaustion. Cannon recommends sticking with a sleep schedule. “Get enough sleep for you. Go to bed at the same time every night and wake up at the same time,” she says. By following a routine, sleeping will become more productive and the body will be rested.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Recognizing and accepting that moods change is another thing Jensen recommends for coping with winter blues. “Watch out for the self-fulfilling hibernation,” he says, explaining this as a cycle of feeling down, not doing anything, staying inside, feeling more depressed, and then sleeping more. This cycle leads to a downward spiral effect and deeper depression. Jensen warns us to recognize the symptoms, find what works, and get out. Support systems can help people recognize when they may be sleeping too much, staying inside too long, and feeling worse about themselves.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Longer than Winter&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Winter blues involve feelings like anxiety, hopelessness, loss of interest, and changes in social interactions. Many people may experience these symptoms at various times during their life, but do these feelings persist? When every day seems to be a bad day and when the feeling of hopelessness becomes a burden, that is when Cannon says it is time to see a professional about depression. The question is, when you feel depressed, do you come out of it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;With some circumstances of SAD, medication helps. Cannon says that taking medicine during those months may help some cope with SAD, but that also involves cognitive therapy with a professional. It varies with each individual.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A New Outlook&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;By making provisions for winter, your morning routine may lose some of the gloom it previously had and look more like the following: The alarm goes off, but instead of hearing voices, a light slowly brightens your room. The curtains are shut; the sun will rise in two hours, but you are feeling stronger than yesterday. Temperatures are forecasted to be in the 20s, again, but blue skies are in the forecast for the next two days. The bright blue light continues to beam, warming your face.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your cell phone vibrates. It’s a text from your friend reminding you about the new elliptical in your living room and the ski trip this Saturday. What’s more, everybody in your support group will be calling in an hour. They will have finished their workout.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Instead of thinking, you throw off your comforter and look for your workout shoes. For you, winter has arrived and taking care of yourself is one of your top priorities. You know that making small changes in your daily routine will have huge effects on your mood. Winter blues are the colors of December, and SAD is just something you deal with around the holidays. For you, winter is only one season.&lt;br _mce_bogus=&quot;1&quot;&gt;

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      <title>Word of Wisdom: The Reality</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2002 18:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      by Susan Noyes Anderson
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source: MormonLife.com
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	&lt;i class=&quot;ml_blurb&quot;&gt;Mormon Life says: Only you will be held accountable for the choices you make in this life. Only you will reap the benefits, and only you will live with the consequences.&lt;/i&gt;


&lt;p&gt;&lt;dropcap&gt;P&lt;/dropcap&gt;arents, teachers, and 
leaders notwithstanding, the truth is pretty  simple: It's all up to you. Only 
you will be held accountable for the choices  you make in this life. Only you 
will reap the benefits, and only you will  live with the consequences. You made 
a decision to come to earth and receive  a body, and you have the opportunity 
to master its appetites, but whether you  do that or not is between you and the 
Lord. In the end, the things you do  with and to your body will be strictly 
between you and your Heavenly Father.  He is the one who gave you that gift, 
and He is the one who will hold you  responsible for it. That's the plan!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If this series of articles has given you more information than you had  
before, or if reading it has helped you see the same old issues in a new way,  
then I've accomplished my purpose. I'm a person who believes in things  
strongly, and one of the things I believe in most strongly of all is the  basic 
goodness and strength of Latter-day Saint youth. Given the right  information, 
most of you will make choices that prove who you are: sons and  daughters of 
God specifically reserved for this day and age because of your  valiance. It 
took a lot of guts and gumption to come to earth, and that guts  and gumption 
is exactly what's needed to make the hard choices. In other  words, you've got 
what it takes!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;May the Lord bless you in everything you do, and may every battle you win  
over the adversary leave you more aware of the incredible power and influence 
you wield as a son or daughter of God.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here is some additional food for thought on choice and accountability.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;LETTER FROM A FRIEND&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;i&gt;(This letter is from a real person and tells his true story; 
used by  permission.)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&quot;On November 10, 1988, at 12:17 AM there was a major car accident in  Santa 
Clara  County. The driver of the car that caused the accident was drunk. He 
was  speeding and ran a red light, hitting another car broadside, at the 
driver's  door. Three people were killed in this accident: a mother and two of 
her  children. One child of hers survived. The drunk driver survived with 
minor  injuries. He was arrested and charged with three counts of second 
degree  murder and felony drunk driving. Ten months later, he was convicted of 
these  charges, and fourteen months after the accident he was sentenced to a 
total  of 48 years to life in prison, the maximum sentence possible. I am that 
drunk  driver.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It is difficult to express the sorrow I feel for the innocent victims  
involved. It is usually a subject I avoid because the memories are painful. I  
have always thought life to be a miraculous and precious thing, and then to  
take it away from three human beings, so senselessly, has caused me great  
anguish. The fact that the victims were a mother and two children just add to  
my sorrow. It was very hard to accept the day after, when reality finally  hit. 
I didn't want to live anymore. It took awhile for the will to live to  come 
back. I had to change my attitude and lifestyle. To be able to live with  
myself I had to start recovering from alcoholism and drug addiction. It is  the 
main thing that gives my life meaning now.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;At this time, I am at Pelican Bay State Prison. It is the highest  security 
prison in the State of California. We are always being watched by  guards who 
carry automatic assault rifles. They will, and do, shoot at  inmates when there 
is violence, or if a person were to try to escape. This is  a totally alien and 
uncomfortable environment compared to what most people  are used to. I would 
not recommend it for anyone, even the other inmates here.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I think that you should know a little about my teenage years. Adolescence  
was a very difficult time for me. It is a time when body and mind change. The  
body matures and the mind becomes preoccupied with the opposite sex. In my  
case, my mind was changing but my body wasn't, at least not as fast as my  
peers. I was small for my age at thirteen, and was very insecure. At this  age, 
I discovered alcohol. I knew that I wasn't supposed to drink alcohol,  that it 
wasn't legal for a thirteen-year-old to drink, but my friends were  trying it, 
and being insecure already, I felt I had to, to fit in. I was also  very 
curious, and when I finally did drink, I was surprised to find that I  was no 
longer insecure. I felt comfortable around the popular crowd, and most  
importantly, I felt comfortable around popular girls. I was hooked from the  
moment I realized this magic quality of alcohol, although at the time I  didn't 
know that I was hooked.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I think it is important to let you know that alcohol wasn't the only drug  I 
started using when I was thirteen. I also started smoking marijuana, and I  
experimented a little with amphetamines (uppers). Once I tried one drug the  
decision to try others came easier. By the time I was eighteen I had used  
alcohol, marijuana, amphetamines, methamphetamines (crank), cocaine, LSD, and  
psychedelic mushrooms. Through all this time I got into trouble, mostly with  
my parents, but also a couple of times with the law. I figured at the time  
that most kids my age had these same things happen to them, at least a lot of  
the kids I was hanging around did. I didn't feel it was that serious, even  
when I blacked out one night and threatened to kill my parents. Two police  
came, and an ambulance came and took me to the hospital tied to a gurney. I  
was embarrassed, and felt bad for a couple of days, but that wore off soon.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I was eighteen, after my senior year in high school, my parents were  
finally fed up with my crazy lifestyle. I think the last straw was when I  quit 
going to summer school. I needed to finish summer school English class  because 
I had failed it during the regular school year. Needless to say I  didn't 
graduate high school. I was given an ultimatum. I had to move out or  go to a 
drug and alcohol rehabilitation program. Being irresponsible, and  realizing 
it, I realized I couldn't make it on my own. I chose  rehabilitation. It was 
the first time I really looked at  myself and admitted I had a problem. The one 
program lasted thirty days, but  I ended up going to another one on top of that 
one, and then a halfway house  after that—five months of treatment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What happened? One thing that you must always remember is that a person  is 
never cured. Recovery from alcoholism or drug addiction is an ongoing  process. 
Three months after I got out of the halfway house, I started using  drugs 
again. Slowly at first, but I was soon back to where I was. Because it  started 
slowly, I had thoughts that maybe I wasn't an alcoholic or a drug  addict after 
all. Maybe I was just unlucky. It is the nature of the disease,  and human 
nature, to not want to admit that something is wrong with me—that  I'm not 
a normal person. It is like a cancer patient, when he first learns he  has 
cancer, does not want to admit it or accept it. Alcoholism and drug  addiction, 
like cancer, is terminal if not treated, and there is always a  fear of 
relapse.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Soon, I was worse than I was before the rehab program. Before I was  twenty-
one, I had two drunk driving [convictions]. I ended up losing my  driver's 
license for eighteen months. Being an auto mechanic, this was very  hard on me, 
but that did not stop me—Nope. I managed to stay out of serious  trouble 
with the law for the next two years. I had a few minor scrapes that  were good 
for a couple of days in the county jail each, but they didn't  discourage me 
from my drug and alcohol abuse. A three-and-a-half-year  relationship with a 
young lady went bitter and ended because of my drug and  alcohol abuse. All 
this, and all I could manage was a couple of sorry  attempts at recovery again. 
Because I never got serious about it, three  innocent people died, and I'm in 
prison for many, many years, maybe for the  rest of my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I never thought that something like this could happen to me. I always  
thought that I had enough control over alcohol and drugs to know when to stop  
or to know when not to drive. In reality, I lost control as soon as I decided  
to have a drink or to take drugs. Taking drugs or drinking alcohol is like  
playing Russian roulette. You never know whether you will become addicted.  
Chances are that some of you that hear this will later become alcoholics or  
drug addicts. It is also very important to know that alcohol is one of the  
most dangerous drugs there is, and it's made more dangerous because, for  
people over twenty-one, it is legal. Not only is alcohol legal, it is  socially 
acceptable. God have mercy on the people who can't handle alcohol  because 
society won't tolerate drunkenness, but yet condones social drinking.  That is 
what kills the alcoholic. For those who prefer illegal drugs, be  aware that 
this new trend, `The War on Drugs,' has no place for  rehabilitation. The state 
is building huge human warehouses, called prison,  for you. Remember that 
rehabilitation doesn't always work the first time, and  it takes a great amount 
of personal effort. Once one becomes despondent, they  must never give up 
trying to recover, even if they keep going back to using.  My advice to you is 
to stay away from all of it. It is not always easy; your  friends may try it 
and try to draw you into it. Stay away from smoking too.  It isn't good for you 
and is also addicting. If you never try it, you'll  never have the problems 
that come with it, and you won't be missing anything.  Alcohol and drugs never 
solve problems—they just create more. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yours truly,&lt;br&gt;Dave&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;TWO SECONDS IS ALL IT TAKES&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;i&gt;(written for Saratoga High School's  &quot;Two Seconds Is All It 
Takes,&quot; a program discouraging driving under the Influence of chemicals.)
&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;Twisted steel and broken lives&lt;br&gt;Dreams are dead, but the pain 
survives&lt;br&gt;Loved ones wishin' they could take it back&lt;br&gt;Run the scene on a 
different track&lt;br&gt;But truth cuts deeper than shattered glass&lt;br&gt;You can't 
build a future on a dying past&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live 
with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Never shoulda happened—Who's to blame?&lt;br&gt;Johnny's headin' out 
to a baseball game&lt;br&gt;Splits a twelver with Hans and Geoff    &lt;br&gt;Downs a few 
just to cool him off&lt;br&gt;Doesn't get buzzed—He's good to go&lt;br&gt;Takes a lot 
more 'n that to lay most guys low&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't 
live with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Walks to his car; waves good-bye&lt;br&gt;Sunny afternoon—clear blue 
sky&lt;br&gt;Killer day for a baseball game&lt;br&gt;Starts the engine...hears his 
name...&lt;br&gt;What's up Johnny, can we get a ride?&lt;br&gt;Sure, Chrissi.  Hey, Kathy.  
Just hop inside&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live with some 
mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Brand new system, soundin' good&lt;br&gt;Turn it up—Lauryn Hill 
rocks the `hood&lt;br&gt;The girls are soundin' real good too&lt;br&gt;Singin' 'bout Zion 
comin' through&lt;br&gt;Now Johnny's bustin' it in his seat&lt;br&gt;They're laughin' so 
hard they almost miss their street&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't 
live with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Tragedy waitin' around the bend&lt;br&gt;Never coulda known it was gonna 
end&lt;br&gt;Arthur and Monte on a burger run&lt;br&gt;Talkin' 'bout women, havin' some 
fun&lt;br&gt;Pagin' all their buddies to meet `em there&lt;br&gt;Rappin' to the radio 
without a care&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live with some 
mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;There's the school.  Turn left here...Quick!!&lt;br&gt;Johnny jerks the 
wheel like a joy stick&lt;br&gt;Cuts the turn too tight, too late&lt;br&gt;Tires squeal as 
they accelerate&lt;br&gt;Around the corner—They're movin' fast&lt;br&gt;And the scream 
that turns his head is Chrissi's last&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't 
live with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Arthur's got no way to go&lt;br&gt;They're headed for him in slo-mo&lt;br&gt;He 
sees their eyes—alive with fear&lt;br&gt;Three faces tell him death is 
near&lt;br&gt;He sees it all—like a movie take&lt;br&gt;But there isn't even time to 
hit the brake&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live with some 
mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;World blows up like a hand grenade&lt;br&gt;Glass and flesh and metal 
sprayed&lt;br&gt;Grinding steel and deafening crash&lt;br&gt;Chrissi layin' still, across 
the dash&lt;br&gt;Arthur moans, and Kathy's tears&lt;br&gt;Feed Johnny and Monte's darkest 
fears&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live with some 
mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Jaws of life can tear and shred&lt;br&gt;But no machine can raise the 
dead&lt;br&gt;Please help my friend; she's hurt the worst&lt;br&gt;There—in the 
front—Get Chrissi first&lt;br&gt;They carry her gently to one side&lt;br&gt;But Kathy 
sees the body bag they can't hide&lt;br&gt;Two seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't 
live with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;We need a level on this guy&lt;br&gt;That's Johnny 
Jones—Yeah—DUI&lt;br&gt;We've got one dead and one near miss&lt;br&gt;Does anyone 
ever get used to this?&lt;br&gt;Hey...Who's that kid over there alone?&lt;br&gt;We gotta 
get his parents on the telephone&lt;br&gt;Two seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't 
live with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;One more ambulance underway&lt;br&gt;Wait, that's my friend. Is he okay?
&lt;br&gt;How bad is Arthur really hurt?&lt;br&gt;Oh no, his blood is on my shirt&lt;br&gt;It 
wasn't our fault—Some crazy guy&lt;br&gt;Came right outa nowhere. Don't let 
Arthur die&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live with some 
mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Johnny in cuffs, hangin' his head&lt;br&gt;Kathy still sobbin', &quot;Mom, 
she's dead&quot;&lt;br&gt;Anne Chin livin' every parent's fear&lt;br&gt;A call from the 
morgue—Your daughter's here&lt;br&gt;Monte's mom thankin' God he's 
okay&lt;br&gt;Arthur's mother findin' out he's DOA&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it 
takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;Twisted steel and broken lives&lt;br&gt;Dreams are dead, but the pain 
survives&lt;br&gt;Loved ones wishin' they could take it back&lt;br&gt;Run the scene on a 
different track&lt;br&gt;But truth cuts deeper than shattered glass&lt;br&gt;You can't 
build a future on a dying past&lt;br&gt;2 seconds is all it takes&lt;br&gt;You can't live 
with some mistakes&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zionsmercantilehotel.com/morehotels.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; _mce_href=&quot;http://www.zionsmercantilehotel.com/morehotels.html&quot;&gt;Nauvoo Hotels&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;©1999 Susan Noyes Anderson&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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      <title>Word of Wisdom: The Low-Down</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2002 18:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      by Susan Noyes Anderson
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source: MormonLife.com
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	&lt;i class=&quot;ml_blurb&quot;&gt;Mormon Life says: What we don't know won't hurt us, right? Maybe not so right. And that's why this information is here, not to lecture you, not to browbeat you, but simply to give you the &quot;rest of the story&quot; on some of the most commonly abused chemicals out there today.&lt;/i&gt;


&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Low-Down&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What we don't know won't hurt us, right? Maybe not so right. And that's  why 
this information is here, not to lecture you, not to browbeat you, but  simply 
to give you the &quot;rest of the story&quot; on some of the most commonly  abused 
chemicals out there today.&lt;a href=&quot;/mormon-life/youth/one-article?article_id=1899&amp;amp;page=3#note&quot; _mce_href=&quot;../../../mormon-life/youth/one-article?&amp;#10;article_id=1899&amp;amp;page=3#note&quot;&gt;&lt;sup&gt;*&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Alcohol:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Alcohol is highly addictive, and the initial high often turns to  
depression. As blood vessels enlarge, the drinker feels flushed, but body  
temperature actually lowers. The part of the brain controlling thought and  
spatial ability changes. Speech, memory and judgment suffer; vision blurs;  
gait and hands become unsteady, reflexes slow; and behavior can be bizarre,  
even violent. Alcohol is dangerous taken with other drugs because the vomit  
reflex may be inhibited, causing alcohol poisoning and possible death.  
Alcoholism is a serious risk and often creates liver and other organ damage.  
(Teens are more susceptible and can develop cirrhosis after just 15 to 20  
months of drinking.) Hallucinations and/or nervous disorders and phobias can  
occur, along with complete physical and emotional dependence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tobacco:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tobacco contains nicotine and tar, made of several thousand chemicals  which 
are mostly cancer-causing and/or poisonous, including carbon monoxide  (a 
deadly gas found in car exhaust), arsenic (used in rat poison),  formaldehyde 
(used to embalm bodies) hydrogen cyanide (the poison used in gas  chambers), 
and more. This drug ravages the body. Blood pressure rises, and  the heart 
beats 40-50 percent faster per minute while the amount of oxygen in  the user's 
blood decreases. Tobacco creates psychological/physical dependence  and causes 
85% of lung cancers. Other cancers are likely also, including oral  cancers 
from chewing tobacco. Heart and blood vessel disease occurs  frequently, and 
tobacco is blamed for 80-90% of deaths from pulmonary  disease. Even knowing 
this, it is hard for users to quit. The addictive  nature of nicotine compares 
to heroin.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Marijuana and Hashish:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Marijuana contains 426 chemicals that are converted into 2,000 when  smoked, 
and the main one is THC. Marijuana now has 5% THC as compared to .2%  in the 
1960's, so it is a far more powerful (and dangerous) drug. In fact,  some 
strains have up to14% THC. A user's heart beats as much as 50% faster.  Time 
and distance perception change; coordination and short-term memory are  
impaired. This drug can be laced with other chemicals like PCP. It is known  to 
be physically and psychologically addictive, with 33% of users becoming  daily 
users. THC is stored in fatty tissue in the liver, ovaries, and  testicles, and 
it takes 30 days to rid the body of it. Habitual use destroys  brain cells and 
can cause permanent short-term memory loss. Amotivational  syndrome--recognized 
by lethargy, reduced attention span, neglect of  personal appearance, and lack 
of interest in anything but getting high--is a  common symptom. Heavy use can 
cause brain atrophy in the cerebrum.  &quot;Burnouts&quot; appear slow, dim-witted and 
forgetful, with personality changes.  Marijuana also aggravates existing 
psychological problems and can cause  paranoia. It has more cancer-causing 
agents than tobacco smoke. Studies show  smoking five marijuana cigarettes is 
equal to smoking 112tobacco cigarettes  in lung toxicity. It also lowers the 
immune system (fewer white blood cells),  decreases testosterone levels, and 
can disrupt menstrual cycles. Hashish is 5  to10 times stronger than marijuana. 
Effects are similar but include  hallucinations and delusions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cocaine: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This drug is routinely mixed with hydrochloric acid. Short-lasting  euphoria 
is followed by intense dysphoria, or &quot;crashing.&quot; This includes  depression, 
anxiety, irritability, and lack of motivation. It also narrows  blood vessels 
and stimulates heart rate, breathing, and blood pressure.  Cocaine can be 
fatal, through cardiac arrest or suffocation from massive  brain seizures. It 
also causes heart palpitations, angina, and arrhythmia.  Addiction comes 
quickly; relapse is common. It creates the most extreme  cravings of any other 
substance. Monkeys in a study consistently chose it  over food until they 
starved to death. Other effects are chronic depression,  compulsivity, panic 
attacks, memory loss, and loss of sexual interest.  Moodiness, absence from 
school or work, nervous twitches, insomnia,  hyperactivity, poor concentration, 
humorlessness, irritability, paranoia,  physical neglect, and teeth grinding 
are also common. Cocaine psychosis with  hallucinations can occur. Long-term 
physical symptoms are fatigue, nausea and  vomiting, digestive disorders, 
severe headaches, cold sweats, respiratory  infections, persistently dry 
throat, and damage to the nose. Those who inject  run the risk of skin 
abscesses, hepatitis, and AIDS from shared needles.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Crack:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Crack is a freebase form of cocaine sprinkled on marijuana cigarettes and  
smoked or vaporized and inhaled through a pipe. Crack's effects are stronger  
than cocaine. Teens who use crack become violent 31% of the time and suicidal  
18% of the time. This drug is even more addictive than regular cocaine and is  
considered the most addictive substance presently known. It causes extreme  
craving that can never be satisfied. A crack addict needs another hit within  
minutes. Addiction can occur instantaneously. A user's need for the drug  
quickly overcomes former values. Criminal behavior is common.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Amphetamines, Methamphetamines, and Other Stimulants:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Speed (or crank) and other stimulants increase heart rate, breathing rate  
and blood pressure. Dry mouth, sweating, headaches, blurred vision,  dizziness, 
sleeplessness, and anxiety often occur. Amphetamines can also  produce tremors, 
coordination loss, fever, chest pains, and fatal strokes or  heart failure, 
especially if injected. The high is followed by a severe and  unpleasant 
depressive &quot;crash,&quot; which often leads to a cycle of abuse.  Long-term effects 
are usually ulcers, skin disorders, malnutrition, and  diseases linked to 
vitamin deficiencies. High doses can lead to psychosis  with hallucinations, 
delusions, and paranoia. These drugs, which can also  lead to violent behavior, 
cause most of the prolonged drug-induced psychotic  mental states in the US. 
Those who inject them run the added risk of skin  abscesses, AIDS, hepatitis, 
lung disease, heart disease, and damage to  kidneys and other tissues.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Inhalants:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;These vapors (such as nitrous oxide) come from household items like  
airplane glue, lighter and cleaning fluids, etc. Inhalants make a person feel  
slow, draggy, dizzy and drowsy. There is a sensation of hyperventilation with  
thick tongue, numb face, and throbbing head. Death can occur. Overdose  victims 
usually suffocate by either choking on their own vomit while  unconscious, 
having the vapors displace the oxygen in their lungs, or  depressing the 
central nervous system so much they stop breathing. These  drugs decrease blood 
pressure, heart rate, and respiratory rate. Other  effects are prolonged 
coughing/sneezing, nosebleeds, appetite loss, visual  impairment, 
hallucinations, loss of ability to speak properly, and violent  actions. 
Inhalants kill brain cells and turn more users into vegetables than  any other 
drug. 40-60% of long-term users sustain brain damage. The central  nervous 
system is permanently harmed with diminishing mental and physical  capacities. 
Kidneys, blood, and bone marrow are also negatively affected.  Weight loss, 
mental, and muscle fatigue also occur.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sedatives and Hypnotics:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;These drugs are tranquilizers usually prescribed for sleep or sedation.  
They can cause slurred speech, staggering gait, lethargy, mental impairment,  
rapid, involuntary movement of the eyeballs, blurred vision, tingling  
sensations in extremities, and mood swings. It is easy to overdose because  
memory is impaired, and the user can't remember how much he has taken. The  
risk multiplies taken with alcohol. Breathing, heart rate and blood pressure  
are diminished. An overdose causes the user to stop breathing. These drugs  are 
extremely addictive. The user's behavior often becomes unpredictable,  
sometimes violent. Withdrawal is even more severe than withdrawal from  heroin. 
Symptoms include anxiety, restlessness, sweating, shaking, nausea,  vomiting, 
and increased heart rate, as well as grand mal seizures and/or  convulsions 
similar to the DT's alcoholics go through at withdrawal.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;LSD:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;LSD is one of several hallucinogens. &quot;Bad trips&quot; are terrifying and  
unpredictable. They include panic, anxiety, and terrifying hallucinations  
lasting for up to 12 hours. Brain waves are often abnormal for one to two  days 
after taking LSD. LSD mimics psychosis. It can cause suicides or  accidental 
deaths. It can also cause flashbacks, or experiencing the effects  of the drug 
without taking it. These can last as long as two years. Signs of  organic brain 
damage (confusion, shortened attention span, impaired memory,  difficulty with 
abstract thinking) have been seen. Some users have reported  permanent loss of 
color vision.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;PCP or Angel Dust:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This powder is often laced with other harmful substances. PCP costs  little 
to make and can be substituted by dealers for more expensive drugs, so  it is 
often taken unknowingly. Effects differ from person to person. Users  can 
become destructive and violent or withdraw completely and be unable to  
communicate. PCP also causes confusion or delusions of massive strength or  
invulnerability to pain, making victims susceptible to drowning, being  burned, 
falling, and car accidents. Users can be severely injured and not  realize it 
until the drug has worn off. Physical effects are also hard to  predict. PCP 
stimulates some and depresses others. Typical symptoms are  tearing of the 
eyes, lack of body control, cramps, sweating, nausea, and  bloody vomiting. 
Large doses can cause drowsiness, convulsions, or coma.  Death from respiratory 
failure is also possible. PCP psychosis can occur  three to four days after 
use. This consists of extreme depression, suicidal  impulses, paranoia, and 
violence that can persist for days or weeks and  require psychiatric treatment. 
Habitual users report slurred speech, problems  with concentration and memory, 
and auditory delusions (imaginary sounds or  voices lasting as long as two 
years.) Other long-term effects are severe  hypertension, multiple seizures, 
fever, brain hemorrhaging, and kidney  failure. The drug causes both tolerance 
and psychological dependence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mescaline, Peyote, and Other Hallucinogens:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;These are similar in nature to LSD. Even the &quot;good trips&quot; are unpleasant  
for many, while the bad ones are terrifying and unpredictable. Peyote causes  
nausea and vomiting.    Mescaline can also cause anxiety or depression.  
Mushrooms are comparable in risk and effect to LSD, though effects are  
generally shorter lived.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Narcotics (Other Than Heroin and Methadone):&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Codeine and other pain pills are made from opium. Before crack came  along, 
these were the most addictive drugs. Anxiety often becomes worse after  the 
effects wear off. Narcotics can also cause restlessness, nausea,  vomiting, 
drowsiness, and a low level of consciousness. Overdose victims may  go into a 
stupor or coma as their respiration, body temperature, and blood  pressure drop 
swiftly. After ten days of daily use or a month of frequent  use, narcotics 
will cause physical dependence. At this point, more is taken  just to avoid 
withdrawal symptoms. Withdrawal includes restlessness,  diarrhea, cramps, 
tremors, sweating, chills, nausea, body pain, runny nose  and eyes, and goose 
flesh. Sleeplessness and drug craving can persist for  months with feelings of 
despair, depression, and worthlessness.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Heroin:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This drug is extremely addictive. All too soon, there is no rush or high.  
The addict is just taking the drug to avoid withdrawal symptoms, which are  
similar to those of other opiates. Heroin causes diminished sex drive, mood  
changes, and lethargy. Overdose, convulsions, coma, and death occur because  of 
impurities in the drug, contaminated needles, and high doses. (High doses  are 
necessary to ward off the withdrawal symptoms as tolerance occurs.) The  ritual 
of injecting the drug can also be psychologically addictive. Veins are  
destroyed, and users will inject into the groin, neck, or any place at all  
where they can find a vein. Withdrawing from methadone is even harder than  
from heroin. Other long-term effects are from needle use: infections or  
flooding of the heart lining and valves, skin abscesses, lung congestion,  
hepatitis, tetanus, liver disease, and AIDS.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Designer Drugs:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ecstasy and similar designer drugs (connected to amphetamines) are made  by 
underground chemists and are often laced with LSD, heroin, and other  
substances. Adverse reactions like confusion, depression, restlessness,  
anxiety, nausea, and faintness frequently occur. Designer drugs also cause  
increased heart rate and blood pressure, chills, sweating, and blurry vision.  
Permanent brain damage and death have occurred.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So what do you think? Sure, some of these drugs seem &quot;fun&quot; at first, but  
scientists agree there's a huge downside physically, to say nothing of  
psychologically and spiritually. The physical effects of drug use are pretty  
straightforward. We took a look at some psychological and spiritual  
consequences in last week's article, &quot;The Fallout.&quot; I hope you'll check out 
next week's article to read some comments, stories, and insights from LDS youth 
who've learned the hard way...from experience.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;br&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;mceItemAnchor&quot; name=&quot;note&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt;*&lt;/b&gt; Facts and statistics taken from Ken Barun 
and Philip Bashe, Drugs and  Alcohol: When Saying No Isn't Enough, [Ontario, 
Canada: Signet, 1992], 162-99.&lt;/p&gt;

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      <title>Word of Wisdom: The Fallout</title>
      <link>http://www.mormonlife.com/story/5134-word-of-wisdom-the-fallout</link>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Jul 2002 18:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      by Susan Noyes Anderson
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source: MormonLife.com
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	&lt;i class=&quot;ml_blurb&quot;&gt;Mormon Life says: Not everyone likes the sensation, but most people who get high would say they're having a great time. Eating hot fudge sundaes is a great time too, but those who keep doing it can wind up paying a pretty &quot;hefty&quot; price. Every choice comes with consequences, and those consequences have a way of adding up.&lt;/i&gt;


&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Fallout&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;dropcap&gt;N&lt;/dropcap&gt;ot everyone likes the 
sensation, but most people who get high would say they're having a great time. 
Eating hot fudge sundaes is a great time too, but those who keep doing it can 
wind up paying a pretty &quot;hefty&quot; price. (Okay...I'm speaking from personal 
experience!) My point? Well, you've heard it before, so brace yourself because 
I'm going to say it again: Every choice comes with consequences, and those 
consequences have a way of adding up. This feels terrific when they're 
pleasant, but the thrill falls a little flat when they're not.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Don't get me wrong. Fun counts a lot in a well-balanced life, but how and 
where you find it counts too. Let's face it, being able to have a good time 
with yourself and those around you is a trait worth pursuing. People who can 
entertain themselves and their friends are in demand because they know how to 
turn a boring day or random activity into something better. This kind of talent 
is an awesome resource, but it comes more easily to some of us than others. Are 
you ever one of those &quot;others&quot;? If so, consider that developing your unique and 
very personal ability to make fun happen pays off in a big way. It guarantees a 
happier life, even during hard times. Will it require work? You can bet on it, 
but you can also bet on at least two lasting rewards: inner strength and 
emotional maturity.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; The stumbling block to all this is pretty obvious. Sometimes we don't feel 
like putting in the effort. When we get lazy (who, me?), the idea of something 
for nothing begins to sound like a real deal. How about the guy who wants good 
grades but doesn't want to work for them? Maybe he finds a TA who agrees to 
give him an answer sheet for every test. Suddenly he has more A's than he knows 
what to do with. Of course, there is a slight hitch. Now he depends on that TA 
for every one of those grades. Can you guess what happens next? One day the TA 
gets caught, or maybe he just quits coming through with the goods. Not only do 
our friend's A's disappear, but now he has no clue how to get them back. While 
everyone else has been learning all along, this kid hasn't picked up a thing. 
The outcome? He flunks the class. Why? Because he no longer knows how to 
succeed taking the test on his own power.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Life is much the same way. Every time someone depends on a drug to make him 
feel good by artificially altering pleasure centers in the brain, he misses a 
chance to develop the skill of making his own fun—or even dealing with his 
own disappointments. By depending on something outside himself to do something 
he could do on his own, he loses power. He also puts up a big &quot;Keep Out&quot; sign 
for the Spirit, one of the few things &quot;outside himself&quot; worth inviting in! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When people's kidneys fail, their health and well-being depends on dialysis. 
A large and cumbersome machine cleans their blood every day. Would anyone ever 
choose this voluntarily? Not likely! Being a self-contained unit allows freedom 
and independence, two things we all enjoy. For example, would you rather take a 
thyroid pill or have your own thyroid working—take insulin or have a 
strong, healthy pancreas that makes its own? These are good questions, and so 
is this one: Are you willing to risk facing the ugly side of chemicals when you 
have everything you need to produce a natural high right in your own brain? 
Only you can come up with that answer. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And while you're at it, here's another interesting question: Does the 
capacity for making real fun shrink when you depend on outside methods? 
Scientists say it does. Our minds come equipped with the power to generate the 
endorphins we need. Endorphins are natural chemicals in the brain that bring 
pleasure and reduce pain. These &quot;good-mood-makers&quot; are released when we run, 
when we smile, and even when we think happy thoughts. The more we call upon 
them ourselves, the better they become at responding. On the other hand, the 
more we trigger them artificially, the more out of whack they become—and 
the more dependent upon outside help. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here's another good analogy (I know, you've already done your time in 
English class today, but hang with me a minute): Some people take prednisone to 
control asthma. Because this medication performs many of the same functions as 
the adrenal glands, those who take it for awhile become dependent upon it. The 
drug actually suppresses the function of their own adrenals. In other words, 
the glands begin to shut down because a drug is doing their job for them. Those 
who go off large doses of prednisone abruptly run the risk of death from 
adrenal failure. Now that's drug dependence! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Endorphins are the same. Natural production in the brain is greatly reduced 
for people who rely upon alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. A person's ability 
to use his own mind and power to adjust and manage moods, thoughts, and life in 
general takes a big hit when he begins to depend on something outside himself. 
This is particularly unfortunate for teens, who are in the process of becoming 
adults. Coping skills fall by the wayside, which means emotional maturation 
either slows down or comes to a dead end. Before long, too much control has 
been handed over to whatever substance is used. At this point, even freedom 
over personal destiny has been left behind. The pathway is clear, but is it 
worth taking? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Fun, after all, is supposed to be just that—fun—from start to 
finish! My suggestion? The next time you're looking for a ray or two of 
sunshine, do yourself a favor: Make sure you're getting the real thing. (And 
check out the &quot;price&quot; while you're at it!) Nobody likes to be cheated, and 
staying in charge of your own destiny sure beats the reverse. Young people who 
chemically produce moods and feelings end up settling for less than they 
deserve and paying too much for it. They get lots of bitter with not enough 
sweet, and their personal resources are ignored or wasted. Why are they willing 
to put up with this? For the same reasons all of us put up with things we 
shouldn't: We don't know how much better things could be. We don't realize how 
powerful we truly are. We haven't learned when to call upon that power, where 
it comes from, or how to feed it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or maybe we do know these things. Maybe we know in our heads, but not in our 
hearts. Could this be your situation? The last time you sang I Am a Child of 
God did you find yourself really believing the words? Were you reminded that a 
spark of His divinity belongs to you?—that you have a righteous, spiritual 
power ready and waiting to be used? Knowing is half the battle, but the other 
half is doing. Are you doing enough to develop your divine inheritance? Can you 
count on your capacity (with God's help) to make your own fun, face your own 
fears, lift your own depression? Or are you relying on something outside 
yourself? Someone other than God? (Let's don't even go there!)  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;These are questions for you alone, and what you do with the answers is 
something you alone must decide. My request is that you think about each one 
carefully, remembering that change is always possible. Are you drug-free? 
Great! Continue to fortify yourself by increasing your own capacity to enjoy 
life. Are you dabbling in drugs...depending on drugs? Then think seriously 
about quitting, and don't be afraid to ask your bishop and others for help. You 
will probably need it. What's more, you will probably like it! &quot;Repentance,&quot; as 
one young man put it, &quot;is a much better high. As hard as it is to go into the 
bishop's office, knowing you are forgiven is one of the best feelings you'll 
ever have.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Have you ever thought of repentance that way, as one of the &quot;best feelings 
you could ever have?&quot; If that kind of high sounds appealing, you'll be glad to 
know that alternatives to drinking and drugs are surprisingly easy to find. 
Happiness is a byproduct of knowing what to look for and learning how to keep 
your balance. Working hard—believe it or not—is part of that formula. 
So is making time for wholesome fun and spiritual activity. Capture the flag, 
flashlight tag, touch football, picnics, hikes, swimming, snowboarding, team 
and other sports, family activities, service projects, a favorite hobby, EFY, 
upbeat music, art, building or creating something, enjoying nature, talking to 
friends, reading the scriptures, praying, listening for the Spirit, seminary, 
various church meetings—all are excellent resources for fun and joy in our 
lives. Even better, they're in good supply. Best of all—they're free! (And 
I'm not just talking about money, either. Is anything more freeing than the 
freedom from bad consequences? How about the freedom from outside control?) 
Taking and keeping the power to choose your own destiny is what freedom's all 
about.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So what do you think? It looks like there's a lot to be said for the &quot;just 
say no&quot; approach. And we haven't even talked about relationships yet. Can 
relationships be seriously affected by substance use? Let's hear what one 17-
year old girl has to say: &quot;When I was using drugs, I quit hanging out with most 
of my old friends. I told myself they gave up on me, but really I started 
pulling away from them. I felt like an outsider at church, like I wasn't a part 
of the group. I really don't know how to explain it: I just felt darker. The 
thing is that I could only realize how bad I was feeling after I began to 
change my life around.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A high school senior made this comment: &quot;I pretty much dumped on my friends 
from before. When we got to high school I thought they were dorks. This year 
they turned out to be the only friends I had. I'm actually surprised they still 
want to hang out. What I found out is that it's hard to stay friends with 
people who are more into getting high than [being friends with] you. I'm not 
putting them down or anything because I was the same way. If I couldn't smoke 
out or at least drink, I didn't go.&quot;  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What about relationships with parents? Can you see any problems that might 
come up there? A 22-year old new mother remembers: &quot;I stayed away from drugs 
but did my share of drinking in high school. For a long time my parents didn't 
know, but when they found out they freaked. They knew I'd been lying, and when 
I kept on lying they stopped trusting me. I felt bad about that but not bad 
enough to quit. It was fun, and I felt more independent. Even after I changed, 
it took forever for them to trust me. We fought all the time. Now that I have 
my own son, I can understand how they felt. I'm afraid my son will do the same 
things I did, or worse.&quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course, relationships with brothers and sisters can suffer too, 
especially if your risky behavior is monopolizing parents' time and attention 
and putting the spotlight on you. We all know about jealousy, and it doesn't 
exactly bring people together! Neither do drugs—at least, not in the long 
run. Real relationships are just that—real. (No chemical additives needed.)
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In the end, of course, the relationship that suffers most is the one between 
you and yourself. If you lose parents' trust, abandon friendships, or anger 
siblings you aren't going to feel good about it. And if you believe, even a 
little, that the Word of Wisdom is right, you're bound to have some guilt going 
on when you break it. Basically, your self-esteem will be in danger of taking a 
dive, to say nothing of your spirituality. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It's no big news that the Spirit can't abide with someone who's using 
alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs. No wonder Satan is so fond of these 
substances! Not only do they banish the Spirit, but they banish your own good 
sense. Drugs affect the limbic system of the brain, which means they affect the 
ability to make decisions and edit behavior. In a way, a person who uses drugs 
is a person who slides over to give Satan a free ride at their wheel. There's 
no doubt about it—If you're looking for a designated driver, he's the kind 
of guy who's ready and willing to step in. What a prince! (of darkness, that 
is.) Of course, you may not end up at quite the destination you had in mind.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The substances listed last week are some of the adversary's most powerful 
tools, and I bet they're his favorites. He used to need years to corrupt a 
young man or woman's values. Now he can take control in a matter of months, 
days...even hours if the drug is strong and/or addictive enough. What a perfect 
arsenal for his last-ditch efforts to thwart the Savior's plan. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It's been said many times: The war in heaven is now being fought on 
earth. &quot;And there was war in heaven: Michael and his angels fought against the 
dragon; and the dragon fought and his angels, and prevailed not; neither was 
their place found any more in heaven. And the great dragon was cast out, that 
old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he 
was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him&quot; (Revelation 
12:7-9) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;That war, so bitter, so intense, has gone on, and it has never ceased. It 
is the war between truth and error, between agency and compulsion, between the 
followers of Christ and those who have denied him&quot; (President Gordon B. 
Hinckley, &quot;The War We Are Winning,&quot; &lt;i&gt;Ensign,&lt;/i&gt; November 1986, pp. 42-43). 
The end 
of the battle President Hinckley describes is near. Which side will you choose? 
And will you be in any condition to make that choice, or will you be &quot;under the 
influence&quot;? (I don't think I need to say whose.) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Before you answer, I hope you'll check out next week's article to read some 
more comments, stories, and insights from LDS youth who've learned the hard 
way...from experience.&lt;/p&gt;

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      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Jun 2002 18:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      by Susan Noyes Anderson
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	&lt;i class=&quot;ml_blurb&quot;&gt;Mormon Life says: How high a price are you willing to pay for a quick fix? When you feel pressured, stressed, angry, sad or just plain bored, what are you going to do about it? Will you go for fast relief, no matter what the cost? Will you be taken in by phony advertising? Or will you give it some time, find out everything you can, and think things through?&lt;/i&gt;


&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Quick Fix&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;dropcap&gt;D&lt;/dropcap&gt;oes anyone not like the 
idea of a quick fix? Instant weight-loss? Cool!  
Unsightly blemishes gone forever in just one application? Perfect! Magical  
body-building formula? Awesome! They're even selling a new pill now 
called  &quot;Exercise in a Bottle.&quot; (In my dreams...) And what about those  
advertisements for college degrees by mail? &quot;Step right up, guys and gals;  why 
wade through four years of classes and tuition payments? Get your  diplomas 
here!&quot; (Yeah, right...What's wrong with that picture?) But you know  something? 
A lot of these companies make big bucks, no kidding. How do they  do it? By 
taking advantage of people who think patience and hard work are no  fun. (Which 
is most of us, at one time or another!)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now I don't have to tell you that the fixes listed above are bogus. But  
some of the quick fixes out there actually work, at least for awhile. Let me  
give you an example. A few years ago a medication called phen-fen was sold to  
the public. It had passed FDA inspection and looked like a great way to lose  
weight quickly and painlessly. And people did lose weight on it. Lots of  
weight. However, over time it became clear that a number of people also lost  
their health. This treatment was finally taken off the market for causing  life-
threatening pulmonary hypertension and heart valve damage in some  patients. 
For them, this particular quick fix came at a high price.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How high a price are you willing to pay for a quick fix? When you feel  
pressured, stressed, angry, sad or just plain bored, what are you going to do  
about it? Will you go for fast relief, no matter what the cost? Will you be  
taken in by phony advertising? Or will you give it some time, find out  
everything you can, and think things through? One thing's for sure, there are  
plenty of choices out there—some that work great, some that don't work so  
great, and some that appear to do the job but have a big downside. Which  kinds 
of choices will you make? What will you do when the pressure hits? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Well... you could EXERCISE, pop a pill or two, PRAY, take a risk or two,  
LISTEN TO MUSIC, chug a beer or two, READ SCRIPTURES, smoke a cigar or  
two—Let's face it, the choices are there for the making. You and only you  
can decide whether you want to EAT WELL, starve yourself, TELL SOMEONE AT  
SCHOOL, cut school, WRITE IT DOWN, shut it down, TALK TO OTHERS ABOUT YOUR  
FEELINGS, yell at others about your feelings—The possibilities go on and  
on. I suspect you can guess which ones I'd recommend! (Aren't capital  letters 
wonderful?)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out that pills, beer, and  cigars 
are probably not going to rank high on the list of healthy ways to  deal with 
pressure. Unfortunately, they do rank high on the list of popular ways to deal 
with it. Doing poorly in school? If so, you've got some choices  to make. You 
can get a tutor and study hard enough to improve, or you can  head for the 
nearest keg party and forget about it. Feeling less cool than  everyone else? 
No problem. You can try new things, building self-esteem and a  sense of who 
you are out of hard work and small successes, or you can light  up a smelly old 
stogie and try to get attention any way you can. Too shy to  talk to girls or 
guys you really like? Easy. You can push your sweaty palms  and shaky knees 
through enough talks, walks, and dates to get used to it, or  you can turn to 
chemicals for courage. What's the best way to go? The right  way, of course! 
False courage tends to crumble under pressure, and every one  of God's children 
(that means YOU) deserves the real thing. Besides, choosing  the right path 
will point you in the right direction (we're talking Celestial  Kingdom here) 
every time. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here's the deal—Most of us just want to be happy, but we don't always  
agree on how to get there. Have you ever heard the 60's phrase &quot;If it feels  
good, do it&quot;? How about the older version ... &quot;Eat, drink and be merry, for  
tomorrow we die&quot;? Sounds pretty cynical, doesn't it? And a bit light on  
consequences for my taste. I think I'll stick with Alma's 
philosophy:  &quot;Wickedness never was happiness&quot; (Alma 41:10). For me, that says 
it all.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What's your philosophy? The debate goes on, but before you enter into it,  
let's make sure you know all the angles. Using any kind of chemical, whether  
it's to &quot;have fun&quot; or to &quot;feel better,&quot; has a serious downside. Our next  
installment, &quot;The Low-Down,&quot; will take a close look at the facts—and 
those  facts reveal just how serious that downside really is.&lt;/p&gt;

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