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{LDSL Blog} Talking About Same-sex Attraction

Thu, 24 May 2012 00:06:00 -0600

by Jamie Lawson
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: In our May/June 2012 issue, we published an article about same-sex attraction that has evoked a wide range of responses. Here’s why we chose to do it.

The decision to publish an article about same-sex attraction in LDS Living was not made lightly. To be honest, I lost a fair amount of sleep over this story wondering how it would be received by our readers and if, in the end, it would be worth the risk.

We knew that many people, both inside and outside of the Church, would be uncomfortable or even offended by the topic. We also knew that by sharing their story, Ty and Danielle Mansfield would be subjecting themselves to scrutiny and criticism—something they were fully prepared to do. But we strongly believed that by running this story, we could accomplish three goals:

Facilitate within the Mormon culture a conversation about SSA.

Increase understanding and compassion for those experiencing SSA.

Give hope and encouragement to Church members who themselves are struggling with SSA.

This article was not meant to stir up controversy for the sake of controversy. And it definitely isn’t suggesting that there is a “magic formula” for everyone dealing with this issue. Rather, it gives an honest look into the heart and mind of a man with same-sex attraction who also has a firm testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ and is doing everything in his power to live it. Since Ty had previously resigned himself to the fact that he would never marry in this life, I found it fascinating and touching to learn how Ty and Danielle’s love story unfolded and how they keep their marriage on solid ground. And judging from the responses we have received, it seems many of our readers did, too.

That’s not to say that we haven’t received a fair amount of criticism—we certainly have. But as Ty and I have shared the feedback we’ve received, both positive and negative, it’s clear that we have accomplished our goals. We have received e-mails, Facebook messages, and handwritten letters from Church members who are secretly battling with SSA, from bishops who are doing their best to counsel members dealing with this issue, and even from members who don’t struggle with it but have been inspired by Ty and Danielle to work harder to strengthen their marriages. The messages have been deeply personal and heartfelt, expressing pain and sorrow, as well as renewed hope and faith, and I’m grateful that they took the time to tell us how the story has affected them.

So was it worth the risk? Absolutely. To know that even one person has been touched by Ty and Danielle’s story, and to know that LDS Living had the privilege of being a small part of it, makes it all worthwhile. Thank you, Ty and Danielle, for your honesty and courage. I know many of us are better people because of it.

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Jamie Lawson is managing editor of LDS Living magazine. She has two adorable boys who help her stay up to date on the latest technology, fashion trends, and catch phrases.

{Food Dish} Best Dessert Bar Contest: 2nd Runner-up + Recipe

Thu, 24 May 2012 00:05:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: We're getting close to revealing the winner of our contest, but let's not forget about the delicious dessert that came in as the third favorite: Butterscotch Nutella Bars.

Two finalists down (see our other favorite dessert bar recipes so far); three more finger-licking recipes to go.

This week, meet our voters' third most favorite recipe from the 30+ that we received: Butterscotch Nutella Bars, by Sharon Leigh Painter of Aloha, Oregon.

Nutella. Need we say more? Combined with the slightly nutty flavor of butterscotch and fluff of marshmallow, these were irresistably sweet. The texture was also perfectly flakey. It's no wonder they were so close to receiving the top honor.

Butterscotch Nutella Bars

Crust Ingredients
2 cups sugar
3 cups flour
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 cup butter, softened
2 eggs

Filling Ingredients
½ cup Nutella
1 cup mini marshmallow over Nutella
1/3 cup butterscotch chips

Crust:
Using a spoon, mix sugar, flour, salt, and baking powder. Using a pastry blender add butter. When well mixed add eggs. Stir with spoon and then mix with hands until well incorporated. Reserve 2 cups (loosely packed) of this mixture for topping. Press the remainder in a sprayed 9 X 13 glass dish. Bake at 350 for 10-13 minutes until lightly golden on edges (do not over bake).

Filling:
While the crust is still hot, spoon on Nutella. Sprinkle marshmallows over that, and then sprinkle butterscotch chips. Finish by sprinkling reserved 2 cups of dough. Bake for 10-13 minutes until marshmallow and crust are lightly browned.

Enjoy warm or cooled.

Other winning recipes from this contest:

Fourth Runner-up: Strawberry Limeade Bars

Third Runner-up: Chocolate Orange Bars

In Her Own Words: Muriel Olive Mason Cuthbert, 1958

Wed, 23 May 2012 08:59:00 -0600

source: keepapitchinin.org

Mormon Life says: A sweet conversion story from a member in England. 1950 was a memorable year for my husband and me, for then our second daughter was born, my husband graduated from Nottingham University and started on a career and we had just moved into our first home of our own. The previous year two American second cousins of mine had visited England; they were Mormons and we learned that one had a son on a mission in England. We said that if he could come and explain his religion to us, we would be interested to hear what it was all about, but that we would never consider changing from the Church of England.

I was disappointed when it was not possible for my cousin to visit us, but one day I got really excited to see three obviously American young men walking round our new estate. About a week later they called on me – and I do not believe any missionaries any time could have had such a reception. They had hardly managed to say, “We are missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ of …” when I enquired “Mormons?” When they said they were, I flung open the door and invited them in, babbling about my cousin and asking if he was one of them.

{Food Dish} Ultimate Guide: Dip Recipes

Fri, 18 May 2012 00:08:00 -0600

by Kaela Worthen
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Dips are the quintessential party food, and I love everything about them. So I went on a quest to find all the best.

I love dip recipes. There's some sort of harmony in that they're all served in a bowl with some sort of other food that gets dunked into them, but there's so much variety that you can consume a full-course meal in dip form. To satisfy my dip craving, I set out to round up the best of them all. Some of these are twists on old classics, but some are new and exciting recipes you may not have seen before.

Classic Appetizers

Caramelized Onion, Gruyere, and Bacon Dip

Spicy Black Bean Dip

Jalapeno Popper Dip

Fruits and Veggies

Fruit Salsa Dip with Cinnamon Chips

Cowboy Caviar

Peanut Butter Fruit Dip

Main Course

Hot Reuben Dip

Taco Dip

Loaded Baked Potato Dip

Desserts

Lemon Meringue Pie Dip

Monster Cookie Dough Dip

Brownie Batter Dip

{LDSL Blog} What Is a Utah Mormon?

Thu, 17 May 2012 01:04:00 -0600

by Erin Hallstrom
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: We've all heard the term "Utah Mormon" (and many of us have even used it). But what does it really say about our cultural group?

I am not a “Utah Mormon.”

Or am I? Honestly, I don’t really know since I don’t know how to clearly define it.

I was born and raised in Hawaii and left to attend BYU Provo. After graduating from college, I lived in Northern Virginia for four years, Salt Lake City for six, Denver for two, and I am back in Salt Lake again, going on three years. I only share this to show that my time spent living outside of Utah is greater then my time spent living in Utah. I admit that I take some pride in this. (I am not proud of that.)

When you don’t live in Utah, the phrase “Utah Mormon” is commonly used to describe a type of member of the ward. (Most of you know who I am talking about.) This person does not have to be from Utah, but they have certain characteristics and personality traits that people associate with Utah Mormon-dom. It could be how they talk, dress, and do their hair, but most especially it is associated with a particular worship style and worldview.

While I have heard someone described as a Utah Mormon many times, I rarely hear someone refer themselves by this term. Why? I can only assume it is because the use of this label is not meant to be complimentary. It is generally spoken with the condescending assurance that you are not one of them.

So then, how do we define a “Utah Mormon”? I've asked around and everyone has an opinion. While key indicators may differ, some common and fundamental themes emerge in people's definition:

* A Utah Mormon has an ignorance or naiveté about the world around them.

* Utah Mormons are nice and well-meaning but not able to comfortably hack it outside of heavily LDS-populated areas.

* They tend to stick to their own and are critical of people or situations that are different; they tend to cling tightly to Mormon culture (as they understand it).

* Utah Mormons feel more educated on Church procedure and culture and can’t help but share such knowledge with those in other areas.

* Utah Mormons take the Church for granted and are not able to develop as tested or strong a testimony as those who are laboring in the “mission field.”

(Side note: Using the term “mission field” to describe anywhere outside of Utah is a huge pet peeve of mine. It is time we all realized – everyone lives in the mission field.)

So why bring this up? Through my observations, and by shining a light on my own prejudices and judgments, I find the use of this phrase (or label) troubling.

I do understand where the label/stereotype comes from. Utah is filled with a whole lot of Mormons. There are bound to be some cultural traditions and experiences that uniquely define Mormon life in Utah. But like all stereotypes, the problem comes when we believe the extreme examples and use them to dictate how we think and interact with those we come in contact with.

What labels do best is identify things. While this works really well on, say, file folders, when dealing with people a label will over-generalize and leave out vital details. When we define using a label it allows us to think we know someone and easily dismiss them. In other words, labeling puts up a wall between ourselves and others and takes us off the hook of getting to really know a person (because in your mind you already do).

Labels and stereotypes are rarely helpful, but I find it particularly problematic when it occurs among our own religious and cultural group. If we can’t be united among ourselves, how are we supposed to love our neighbor? We have to find a way to bridge the labels, our differences, and judgments we have about each other so we are free to learn and connect with each other as brothers and sisters. Utah Mormon, Molly Mormon, Jack Mormon . . . whatever the label is, let’s be more aware of why we use them and try a little harder to get to know each other better – no matter where we grew up or how we choose to wear our hair.

{Food Dish} Best Dessert Bar Contest: 3rd Runner-up + Recipe

Thu, 17 May 2012 00:05:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: We continue to unveil the most delicious dessert bars of all today with another winning recipe: Chocolate Orange Bars, which received the fourth most votes.

Do you think you can handle the deliciousness?

Last week we started to announce the best recipes we came across during our recent Best Dessert Bar Contest with our fourth runner-up: Strawberry Limeade Bars (click here for the recipe).

Now it's time to get the delicious details on the third runner-up: Chocolate Orange Bars, by Barbara Lee Parsons of Huntsville, Alabama.

We loved the perfectly chewy texture of these bars (just what a bar should be) paired with the perfect balance of sweet chocolate to citrusy orange. The flavors were just a great combination; we couldn't get enough!

Chocolate Orange Bars
(Welcome to the Neighborhood Treats)

Layer #1
1 cup all-purpose flour, sifted
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/4 cup unsalted butter at room temperature

Layer #2
3/4 cup brown sugar, firmly packed
2 eggs
1 (6-ounce) package of chocolate chips
1/4 cup coconut, flaked style
2 tablespoons flour
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon vanilla

Orange Frosting:
1 1/2 cups powdered sugar
3 Tbsp butter
1 tsp grated orange rind
2 T orange juice

Layer #1: Cream the butter and the sifted flour and salt and mix thoroughly. Line an 8-inch square pan with wax paper and spread the mixture into pan and press down with a spoon. Bake for 15 minutes at 375 degrees F.

Layer #2: Blend together the sugar and eggs and stir in 3/4 cup of the chocolate chips. Add coconut and vanilla. Mix in the flour and salt Mix well and spread over first layer that previously you baked. Bake again for 15 minutes in a 375 degree F oven. Remove from oven, cool and then remove from pan.

Frosting: Cream butter and gradually add the sugar. Blend thoroughly. Add orange rind and orange juice. Frost the bars with orange frosting. Melt the remaining chocolate chips and drizzle on top of orange frosting.

Other winning recipes from this contest:

Fourth Runner-up: Strawberry Limeade Bars

{Poll} The Wedding Thank-you

Thu, 17 May 2012 00:02:00 -0600

by Kaela Worthen
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Having recently gotten married, I'm now facing the daunting task of sending thank-you cards. What rules do you think are most important when sending cards?

It's a given that thank-you cards should be sent when people come to your wedding and give you gifts. But the exact manner in which this should be done seems cluttered by a lot of rules and sometimes debate. I've seen some that are monogrammed in sealed envelopes and others that are just postcards, some with photos and some not. Some mention the gift (and some mention the wrong gift), and some add a personal note while others are more formulaic. What's okay and what's not? You tell me.

{LDSL Blog} Best of: Stories of the Week, May 5-11

Sat, 12 May 2012 00:04:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Check out which stories made up the best of LDS Living for the week of May 5 through 11, 2012.

We all love a good story. And what better way to find out the best of the best than seeing what people found most interesting? For the week of May 5 through May 11, 2012, these are LDS Living’s top online stories:

Top 5 LDS Living Stories:

1. Jon Stewart defends Mormonism on 'The Daily Show' {LDS Living}

2. {Food Dish} Best Dessert Bar: 4th Runner-up + Recipe {LDS Living}

3. {Lifestyle} Ultimate Guide: Modest Swimsuits 2012 {Kate Ensign-Lewis}

4. Photo Gallery: The Artwork of President Packer {LDS Living}

5. Blending Families {Jonathan Swinton}

Top 5 Mormon Report Articles:

1. LDS Church buys historical sites from Community of Christ {Deseret News}

2. A look at Connecticut Mormon temple plans {Farmington Patch}

3. Mitt Romney, Mormons brace for a mean political season {Deseret News}

4. Two writers use Book of Mormon to score political points {Deseret News}

5. Race, religion collide in presidential campaign {Associated Press}

Top Video:

'Have I Done Any Good?' Official Music Video ft. Alex Boye & Carmen Rasmusen Herbert {YouTube}

{Food Dish} Best Dessert Bar Contest: 4th Runner-up + Recipe

Thu, 10 May 2012 00:05:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Choosing our favorite dessert bars was hard – there were so many delicious options! But we did what had to be done, and now it's time to start meeting the winners. Today: Strawberry Limeade Bars, which received the fifth most votes.

A couple weeks ago, we held our dessert bar competition here at corporate headquarters. We had quite the task in front of us, since we received so many recipes (and all of these sounded delicious). We enlisted the help of co-workers, family members, and friends, and finally came up with a list of our favorites.

Because your submissions were just so tasty, we're publishing more than the usual three recipes online. So, today, meet our 5th favorite recipe: Strawberry Limeade Bars, by Julie Egan of Flower Mound, Texas.

We loved the refreshing, slightly tropical twist of these bars. They taste just like the drink!

Strawberry Limeade Bars

Crust:
1 strawberry cake mix
1/2 cup butter, softened
1 egg
2 tablespoons lime zest

Topping:
4 eggs, beaten
1 cup sugar
1/4 cup flour
1/2 cup lime juice

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Mix crust ingredients and press into 9x13 pan. Bake for 15 minutes.

Mix together topping ingredients and pour over crust. Bake for an additional 25 minutes, until set.

Sprinkle with powdered sugar while warm. Cool. Serve at room temperature or chilled.

Check out the links below for other finalists from the dessert bar contest:

3rd Runner-up: Chocolate Orange Bars

{LDSL Blog} Best of: Stories of the Week, Apr. 28-May 4

Sat, 05 May 2012 00:04:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Check out which stories made up the best of LDS Living for the week of April 28 through May 4, 2012.

We all love a good story. And what better way to find out the best of the best than seeing what people found most interesting? For the week of April 28 through May 4, 2012, these are LDS Living’s top online stories:

Top 5 LDS Living Stories:

1. Photo Gallery: The Artwork of President Packer {LDS Living}

2. {Lifestyle} Ultimate Guide: Modest Swimsuits 2012 {Kate Ensign-Lewis}

3. {Poll} Public Displays of Affection at Church {Kate Ensign-Lewis}

4. {Food Dish} Muffin Tin Meals {Ashley Evanson}

5. FHE: Sacrifice {Shauna Gibby}

Top 5 Mormon Report Articles:

1. 'Time to shatter Mormon myths' column spreads across the country {Mormon Times}

2. Slate on how Mormons went from beard-wearing radicals to clean-cut conformists {LDS Living}

3. Women's Conference begins, new RS presidency debuts {Deseret News}

4. House candidate and rising GOP star is black, female - and Mormon {CNN}

5. Prince Charles and the Book of Mormon {Mormon Times}

Top Video:

'Have I Done Any Good?' Official Music Video ft. Alex Boye & Carmen Rasmusen Herbert {YouTube}

{Poll} Plastic Surgery

Thu, 03 May 2012 00:06:00 -0600

by Jamie Lawson
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: How do you feel about plastic surgery? Is it ever appropriate?

I remember the first time someone I knew chose to get plastic surgery.

My good friend often complained that giving birth to five children had left her body in less than ideal condition—and there were certain things that could not be improved with diet and exercise alone. After saving for a few years, she elected to have a tummy tuck and breast lift. “It’s not plastic surgery, it’s reconstructive surgery,” she told me.

The results were amazing. Not only did her figure look great, but she also enjoyed a new level of confidence that I had never seen in her before.

Another woman I know just finished her third round of liposuction. After getting breast implants, she decided the rest of her body could look better. So she had liposuction on her thighs, back, and upper arms. But now she believes her 42-year-old face doesn’t match her youthful body. She regularly receives Botox injections to help soften the wrinkles in her face, and she is now considering an eyelift.

To me, it seems there can be legitimate reasons for plastic surgery, but it can also be a slippery slope where someone can never be quite satisfied with his or her appearance when there is always another body part to improve upon.

So here’s my question: How do you feel about plastic surgery? Is it ever appropriate? How much is too much?

Take our poll and leave a comment below.

{Lifestyle} Ultimate Guide: Modest Swimsuits 2012

Thu, 03 May 2012 00:05:00 -0600

by Kate Ensign-Lewis
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Swimsuit season: there's no need to dread it anymore because cute and modest swimsuits not only exist – they seem to be everywhere! Check out this season's offerings.

Only two years ago I felt stymied in my attempts to find a modest swimsuit for a family cruise – they all looked like they were meant for someone 40 years my senior or someone who really wanted to live in the 90s. I stumbled upon one of the few beautiful and modest pieces out there just in time.

But now, it seems fashionable, feminine suits are everywhere! Polka dots continue to be popular, but there are also a few cute plaids out there this year. I bet you'll find something you'll like here.

Note: One person's idea of "modest" might not exactly square with someone else's, but these are swimsuits I think might generally be considered modest.

Photo from Downeast Basics

Retro Revival Suit, $49.99

Photo from Old Navy

Women's Twist-Front Control Max Swimsuit, $44.94

Photo from Downeast Basics

Silver Screen Suit, $49.99

Photo from ModBe

Islander Top, $50

Photo from Walmart

Catalina Women's Retro Tank Swimsuit, $15

Photo from Lime Ricki

Floral Retro One Piece, $61.99

Photo from Gap

Bandeau one-piece, $59.95

Photo from Lime Ricki

Gingham Retro One Piece, $61.99

Photo from Old Navy

Women's Ruffle Tankini Top, $24.94 (bottoms $19.94)

Photo from Divinita Sole

Flower Ruched Tankini, $99

Photo from Divinita Sole

Square Halter, $99

Photo from Lime Ricki

Pink One-shoulder Tankini, $48.99

Photo from DownEast Basics

Malibu Swim Skirt, $26.99

{Lifestyle} Planting an Edible Garden

Thu, 03 May 2012 00:03:00 -0600

by Joy Bossi and Karen Bastow
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Whether you have two acres or two containers, it is possible to harvest crops nearly year round in your own little slice of garden heaven.

“Spring has sprung, the grass has riz, I wonder where the veggies is?”

Planting an edible landscape gives room for all the veggies and fruits any family would love. In many areas, spring planting may start as early as March—or even February in warmer climates. Here in the Intermountain West, we are pushing the freezing envelope if any warm season crops are planted before the middle of May. Okay, okay . . . it’s even better if we wait until around Memorial Day.

Whether you have two acres or two containers, it is possible to harvest crops nearly year round in your own little slice of garden heaven. The downsizing of home lots can cause some concern about available space.

Instead of just choosing plants that provide ornamental delight, try planting some yummy edible substitutes that are beautiful in their own right. Lawn has its place and important function, but if the only sunny area in your yard is now lawn, maybe that is the space you should be aiming at for food production. Gardens can be planted in rather unconventional ways that add interest and surprises throughout the entire yard.

In our book, The Incredible, Edible Landscape, we help gardeners explore new ways to produce food in the most local place of all—their own yards! There are many reasons we feel this is an important part of provident living, and here are a few:

-Serious counsel has been given to grow our own food.

-Commercial food supplies sometimes become contaminated with E. coli, salmonella, etc.

-Pesticide residue on our fresh foods poses increasing health risks.

-Nutrients begin to be lost the moment crops are harvested.

-Perhaps most importantly: no one should miss out on the taste of a freshly picked ripe peach or a sun-warmed, homegrown tomato.

As President Benson once said, “The revelation to produce and store food may be as essential to our temporal welfare today as boarding the ark was to the people in the days of Noah.”

One of the early titles of our book was “Provident Gardening.” That title ended up on the editing room floor, but the message behind that title is still addressed in every chapter. So, just what is gardening providently? It’s carefully preparing for future needs by focusing on growing edibles—and not only in the future but, deliciously, in the here and now! Knowing how to grow veggies under a variety of conditions can certainly supplement and enhance basic food storage. We strongly believe that NOW is the time to learn and practice gardening skills. There is no better place or time to hone these skills than when choosing your next gardening project. Try some of these edible substitutions for a start:

TREES – FOR -

Almond trees Flowering Cherries

2 varieties of Filbert Clump River Birch

Sour Cherry trees Lilac, Forsythia

Dwarf Peach tree (not in deep shade) Japanese Maple

SHRUBS –

Gooseberry Pyracantha, Barberry

Raspberry Privet, Juniper

Grape vine Virginia Creeper

Dwarf peach, plum, or apple Mugho pine

ANNUALS –

Opal basil Ageratum, Lobelia

Eggplant Tall Zinnia

Bright Lights Chard Medium Marigold

Sun Sugar tomato Black-eyed Susan vine

PERENNIALS –

Asparagus Ornamental Grass

Golden Sage Moonbeam Coreopsis

Chives Blue Fescue Grass

Oregano Ajuga

Here are some more ideas for incorporating edible plants into your garden:

Rhubard chard with edible Pansies.

Can you spot strawberries, nasturtiums, peppers, marigolds, melons, peaches, and ornamental sweet potatoes?

Condominium containers = edible landscape

Here’s a personal survey to help you determine your progress towards provident gardening:

1. Do you know how to grow plants from seeds?

2. Can you gather seeds from the produce you grew?

3. Have you stored those seeds?

4. Are there spare tools, parts, fertilizer, etc. in your storage?

5. Can you protect your little plants from cold, heat, insects, wind, and animals?

6. Do you know how to properly plant a leggy tomato start?

7. Can you freeze, dry, bottle, preserve and store your produce?

8. Would you like to know how to grow a Chocolate Cookie Bush?

Our book addresses these and other important gardening questions, but for all of the ideas in our book, the most important message we share is this: spiritual and emotional comfort and healing can come from being in a garden—especially when that garden is an incredible, edible landscape!

To learn more or order The Incredible, Edible Landscape, please visit joyinthegarden.com.

{Poll} Public Displays of Affection at Church

Thu, 26 Apr 2012 00:04:00 -0600

by Kate Ensign-Lewis
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Some of my friends' religion professors have said church is absolutely not the place for PDA, but I've also seen plenty of leaders show affection for their wives in public settings. Where is the line?

I like to show affection for my husband. Whenever I can, I try to hold his hand. When we say goodbye, we give a quick kiss to let the other person know he/she is in our thoughts while we're apart. Sometimes, I'll rest my head on his shoulder and move in close next to him for some mild cuddling. We even do these things at church.

Now, I really don't think any of these are inappropriate. But some might. And I know some people definitely think back rubs or scratches are completely inappropriate in a church setting.

While I think it's pretty safe to say that making out is not acceptable at church (or in any public setting, really), what about more innocent forms of affection? We'd like to get a general survey of church membership, so let us know what you think . . .

{LDS How-to} Use LDS Employment Services

Thu, 26 Apr 2012 00:03:00 -0600

by Alexa Justesen
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Unemployment can be stressful and scary, but the Church has provided some great resources to find work quickly.

Whether you’ve just graduated from college and are looking for a job, or the economic downturn got the best of you, most of us will have to worry about unemployment at some point in time. Below is a quick guide for using LDS Employment Resource Services to help you get back on your feet by making a great impression in the job market.

The first step is to go to the LDS Employment Resource Services website at ldsjobs.org and create a free online account. This will allow you to upload a resume and find job listings based on your location. Employers will also be able to find your information.

Next, browse the website for job advice (which it is chock-full of), such as how to build a resume, dress for an interview, or network successfully. The website covers lots of information and is easy to use. You can even sign up to receive regular e-mails full of tips and success stories.

But what if you want some face-to-face counseling or resume-building help? Luckily, you can also set up a one-on-one advisement meeting at your local Employment Center with a career adviser. Employment Centers are located all over the world, generally in LDS meetinghouses. Full-time senior couple missionaries or part-time service missionaries are called specifically to help the unemployed find work. These meetings are especially successful because the career advisers can tailor the job search to you and your skills. They will also keep you updated on any career fairs, workshops, or meetings going on in your area.

With all of this information available, LDS Employment Resource Services maintains that there are a few things anyone can and should do when it comes to searching for a new job, whether you use their help or not:

• Build a network. Start with one person who knows and understands your career interests. Ask them to introduce you to others in your field of interest, and build a network from there. Success stories usually start from beginning a network.

• Create a power statement. In an interview, the employer wants to know why they should choose you over the other guy sitting in the lobby with his resume in hand. So tell them! A lot of people fear that they will sound like they are bragging if they talk about themselves too much in an interview, but that’s exactly what the prospective employer wants to hear. Create a strong statement about yourself, your accomplishments, and why you think you would be a great fit for the position. Don’t hold back during your interview.

• Find someone to look over your resume and cover letter. Make sure your materials are grammatically correct, and that you have included necessary information. Some employers base their judgments on resumes more than interviews, so you want yours to look as professional and informative as possible.

• Invest in an interview outfit. It’s called a “power suit” for a reason. If you saw two men or two women walking down the street, one dressed casually, the other in a sharp suit and shined shoes, who would get your positive attention first? We know we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, but in the case of a job interview, that book cover is the first thing the employer sees. Wear your new duds with confidence.

• Take a career test. LDS Employment encourages everyone without a job, regardless of whether you quit, were let go, or are a recent graduate to take a career test before starting the application process. The test helps you scope out your talents and abilities,and might even help you discover that your interests have changed, prompting you to look for completely different employment. You can take a career test by meeting with an LDS Employment Specialist.

No matter where you are on the job hunt, utilizing resources that are available to you will only increase your chances of finding long-term employment. With a little patience, a lot of effort, and with the help of LDS Employment Resource Services, finding a job will be that much easier.

{LDSL Blog} Best of: Stories of the Week, Apr. 14-20

Sat, 21 Apr 2012 00:07:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Check out which stories made up the best of LDS Living for the week of April 14 through April 20, 2012.

We all love a good story. And what better way to find out the best of the best than seeing what people found most interesting? For the week of April 14 through 20, 2012, these are LDS Living’s top online stories:

Top 5 LDS Living Stories:

1. Draggin', Saggin', and Naggin': When Hormones Drive You Crazy {Dr. Robert Jones}

2. Fighting the Battle Against Pornography {Briana Stewart}

3. {Lifestyle} Ultimate Guide: Knee-length Shorts {Ashley Evanson}

4. Dave Says: Downsizing House to Get Out of Debt? {Dave Ramsey}

5. April 2012 Visiting Teaching Message: Love, Watch Over, and Strengthen

Top 5 Mormon Report Articles:

1. Fire in LDS Conference Center leaves thousands of gallons of water in main auditorium {Deseret News}

2. Two LDS missionaries battle back from brain injuries {Deseret News}

3. MSNBC host Lawrence O'Donnell apologizes for anti-Mormon comments {TIME}

4. Elder David Archuleta at the MTC - as seen by fellow elders and sisters {Salt Lake Tribune}

5. Is it open season on Mormonism? {Washington Post}

Top Video:

Preview: Have I Done Any Good? Alex Boye and Carmen Rasmusen Herbert {YouTube}

{Food Dish} Best Frozen Dough Recipes

Thu, 19 Apr 2012 00:04:00 -0600

by Kate Ensign-Lewis
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Delicious bread recipes all using one of the modern miracles of baking: pre-made, frozen dough.

Every Monday, we include a recipe from Rhodes in our FHE e-mail (click here to sign up). Yes, Rhodes is one of our sponsors, but very often I find myself making mental notes to come back later, when I'm off the clock, and try them out. These are my top picks from that list.

A warning to low-carb or gluten-free readers: You may not want to tempt yourself by reading further. This is sweet, bready heaven.

Braided S'more Bread

Family Size Italian Club Calzone

Coconut Lime Blossoms

Cream Cheese Onion Swirls

Cinnamon Slices

BBQ Chicken Stromboli

Orange Butterflake Rolls

Pumpkin Pecan Cream Cheese Rolls

Turkey Rosemary Turnovers

{LDSL Blog} Best of: Stories of the Week, Apr. 7-13

Sat, 14 Apr 2012 00:04:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Check out which stories made up the best of LDS Living for the week of April 7 through April 13, 2012.

We all love a good story. And what better way to find out the best of the best than seeing what people found most interesting? For the week of April 7 through 13, 2012, these are LDS Living’s top online stories:

Top 5 LDS Living Stories:

1. Advice I'd Give My 21-Year-Old Self {LDS Living Readers}

2. LDS man is 'World's Most Embarrassing Dad' {Emily McClure}

3. 100 years after Titanic sinks, LDS connections still remembered {Alexa Justesen}

4. Ideas for a Fun and Christ-centered Easter {LDS Living Staff}

5. I'm Anxious - So Let's Break Up {Alisa Snell}

Top 5 Mormon Report Articles:

1. Anti-Mormon bigotry repeated by MSNBC host Lawrence O'Donnell {Deseret News}

2. CNN takes a rare tour of a Mormon Temple {CNN}

3. Wallace 'ambushed' by cordial, warm, thoughtful Gordon B. Hinckley {Deseret News}

4. Gay BYU group seeks to understand students with same-sex attraction {Deseret News}

5. Romney about to Make History for Mormons {Salt Lake Tribune}

Top Video:

He Is Risen {LDS.org}

{LDSL Blog} Best of: Stories of the Week, Mar. 31-Apr. 6

Sat, 07 Apr 2012 00:04:00 -0600

by LDS Living
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: Check out which stories made up the best of LDS Living for the week of March 31 through April 6, 2012.

We all love a good story. And what better way to find out the best of the best than seeing what people found most interesting? For the week of March 31 to April 6, 2012, these are LDS Living’s top online stories:

Top 5 LDS Living Stories:

1. LDS man is 'World's Most Embarrassing Dad' {Emily McClure}

2. {Food Dish} Simple General Conference Recipes {Kate Ensign-Lewis}

3. Does giving your children Mormon names affect their future? {Mandy Slack}

4. {Lifestyle} General Conference Activities for Kids {Ashley Evanson}

5. How to Live to 100 {Dr. Thomas J. Boud}

Top 5 Mormon Report Articles:

1. Hatch: Obama camp will 'throw Mormon church' at Romney {Politico}

2. Highlights from 182nd Annual General Conference {LDS Church News}

3. Elder Harold G. Hillam dies at age 77 {LDS Church News}

4. LDS Church, neighbors clash over proposed 9-story MTC building {The Daily Herald}

5. LDS bishop allegedly defrauded Connecticut investors, members {Deseret News}

Top Video:

David Archuleta Gets Missionary Haircut, Says Goodbye to Fans {YouTube}

{Lifestyle} Roundup: Forget Me Not

Thu, 05 Apr 2012 00:22:00 -0600

by Ashley Evanson
source: MormonLife.com

Mormon Life says: President Uchtdorf's talk "Forget Me Not" was an instant classic, resulting in "reminders" of all sorts - from statuettes to pretty rings, and even a book. We've found the very best the Mormon marketplace has to offer.

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We love President Uchtdor's newest book Forget Me Not. This would make the perfect Mother's Day gift (hint, hint, husbands!).

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A lovely forget me not figurine

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FREE 5x7 printable quote

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Never forget to be happy with this forget me not ring.

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Subway art bookmarks

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Digital print of President Uchtorf's "Forget Me Not" talk

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Forget me not necklace